{"id":989,"date":"2025-11-18T10:46:19","date_gmt":"2025-11-18T09:46:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/claudialiebmann.com\/?p=989"},"modified":"2025-11-18T10:46:19","modified_gmt":"2025-11-18T09:46:19","slug":"when-we-dare-to-be-ourselves","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/claudialiebmann.com\/en\/when-we-dare-to-be-ourselves\/","title":{"rendered":"When We Dare to Be Ourselves"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The other day, I saw a woman hugging a tree \u2014 a sequoia I also love.\u2028 I walk by it whenever I go for my round in nature, and I\u2019ve hugged it or leaned against it many times.<\/p>\n<p>I walked up to her and her partner, smiling, and said, \u201cI do that too.\u201d\u2028 She laughed and admitted she\u2019d wanted to do it quickly, before anyone saw her \u2014 so I wouldn\u2019t think she was a weirdo.<br \/>\nI know how she feels, I usually also look both ways before I do it!<\/p>\n<p>But that moment opened a lovely conversation between us.<\/p>\n<h5><strong>And it reminded me why it\u2019s so important to be ourselves fully.<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>If we hide our true nature \u2014 the small, genuine things that make us light up \u2014 we also hide the chance to connect.<\/p>\n<h5><strong>By showing up authentically, we give others permission to do the same.\u2028 And that\u2019s how kindred spirits find each other.<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>So often we hold back our natural impulses \u2014 those spontaneous gestures of affection, wonder, or curiosity \u2014 because we worry about how they\u2019ll be perceived.\u2028 We fear seeming odd, too much, too emotional.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazyload wp-image-993  aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/claudialiebmann.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/2025.11-Sequoia-Sun-scaled.jpg\" data-orig-src=\"https:\/\/claudialiebmann.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/2025.11-Sequoia-Sun-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"853\" 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https:\/\/claudialiebmann.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/2025.11-Sequoia-Sun-1200x1600.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/claudialiebmann.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/2025.11-Sequoia-Sun-1320x1760.jpg 1320w, https:\/\/claudialiebmann.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/2025.11-Sequoia-Sun-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/claudialiebmann.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/2025.11-Sequoia-Sun-scaled.jpg 1920w\" data-sizes=\"auto\" data-orig-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But when we hide these parts of ourselves, we also hide the possibility of connection.\u2028 If I hadn\u2019t seen her hugging that tree, I would have walked by without knowing we shared something small yet meaningful.\u2028 We might never have spoken.<\/p>\n<p>Our authenticity is what opens the door to recognition \u2014 to those small, magical moments when someone smiles and says, \u201cMe too.\u201d<\/p>\n<h5><strong>These are the moments that open our hearts.<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>And God\/dess knows we need more of that on this planet.<\/p>\n<p>So let\u2019s hug the tree.\u2028 Dance in the field (that would still take courage on my part \u2014 but I want to get there!).\u2028 Laugh out loud.<\/p>\n<p>May we keep meeting each other in these small, genuine moments of truth \u2014 open-hearted, unguarded, and real.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The other day, I saw a woman hugging a tree <a href=\"https:\/\/claudialiebmann.com\/en\/when-we-dare-to-be-ourselves\/\"> 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